Myths Busted – Relationships and Love
Relationships in and out of family are subject to constant debates as being an abstract and indefinable aspect of human life; they remain very much confused and uncertain. In fact, human relationships are very much subjective and debatable. The depth, meaning, happiness, happiness and understanding differ from person to person. Following the exact path of a successful relationship in one person’s life may not be equally beneficial or another one. Yet there are certain commonly accepted modes of being in relationships.
The varieties of relationships exists among human beings in form of family relationships, romantic relationships, parental relationships, extramarital relationships etc,. Being in a relationship is an added responsibility and obligation as the success of any relationship is the collective result of the attitudes, behavioral patterns and personal preferences of two or more people included in the relationship. There are few relationship myths; usually people believe to be true. Let’s explore the myth ride:
There is a Soul Mate or True Love for Every Person
It is an obvious myth and also a mistake to believe that each and every person has a true love or soul mate. You get into relationship with a person not because he/she is the one and only person who fits your requirements and matches your mind. Well infact the person is just one among many of similar type.
It is because when the stars were right when you met, you are in relationship with the person. If you were born to a different region on earth, you might see another person matching your mind and would have fallen for him/her. Therefore, it is quite possible to have more than one soul mate for every person.
Best Relationship is between People of Similar Personality
Similarity is just a vague concept. If two people are ideal for all their attitudes and aspects, then the concept of individuality is meaningless. The belief that similar personalities and mindsets attract each other is a total falsehood. It is not the mentality or personality that attracts people. Not even twins are similar in the world as individuality is the most significant aspect of human life.
People who go hand in hand in certain aspects may differ in other elements. For instance, people who like the same food may differ in their political mentalities.
Love is everything in relationships
It’s time to get a reality check….!!! Never forget that your love is not the food of life. Relationships can start from mere attraction and cherish and flourish with love. But love is not the whole of any relationship. Many hash tags like responsibilities, obligations, adjustments, dedication, sacrifice etc., are required for a long term relationships. And most important – don’t let the brain-mercury rise high, it avoids banter. At the end, love essentially is the background to all such qualities.
Sexual activities foster relationships
Sex and satisfying physical needs help fostering relationships, but believing that sex is essential factor of every relationship is a wrong concept. Relationships are much more than merely getting laid with your partner. The mental oneness and emotional attachment is always required in a relationship and sex is only one of the ways of attaining it.
Even without sex two people can be finely compatible and satisfied with each other extracting happiness. Thinking that sex is everything in a relationship may damage the intensity as both the partners may not always be prepared or interested in sexual activities.
New relationship is the best cure after a breakup
Hahh… the emotional trauma!!! It is another relationship myth to think that the perfect cure for a breakup is getting into another relationship in no time. Experts say that one has to find time to be alone after the breakup to analyze the reasons of the breakup and also to find the ways of not repeating the mistakes in future relationships. Sometimes, the reasons for breakup would be laying underneath the person himself/ herself.
Getting into another relationship without mending the issue or changing the attitude may result in another breakup. This it is always advised to take time to get into another relationship soon after a breakup. Newer relationships – a cure for breakup is a total no no…